Venus in Scorpio

Venus is about to move back into Scorpio – a sign she’s not particularly comfortable in. Venus in Scorpio is in what traditional astrologers term the sign of her detriment(remember back to this Toolbox?). This doesn’t mean that Venus is weak in Scorpio, it means that she is in a position where she can’t use her strength, in a place which is alien to her. She has no essential dignity in Scorpio.

Venus loves pleasure, beauty, art, food, attracting. What she doesn’t like is too much intensity, focus and sharp edges. Venus likes to attract, and in Mars-ruled Scorpio, she is magnetic. Venus likes to lightly and gracefully skate across the surface, in Scorpio she goes deeper to a place that is darker than she would like.

Anyways, if you want to know more about Venus in Scorpio, I just happened to have prepared something (much) earlier. You’ll find it here.

Venus has already been through here this year – back in September before she turned retrograde. Have a think about whatever was going on for you back then, as similar themes could be coming back up now.

Doing it for yourself…

We all have Scorpio somewhere in our chart, and it’s this part of life that Venus will be bestowing her presence on. It’s this part of life that you’ll find pleasure in – yes, even when Venus is in intensely focused Scorpio. Don’t be surprised over the next few weeks if you’re no longer pleased with the watered down option, or the almost there’s. Under Scorpio Venus is not satisfies with second best – nor is she in a mood to compromise.

If you have a particular obsession with something, you’ll probably want to be indulging that a tad now. If so, whether it be shoes, love, lust or something else entirely – take care not to obsess past a stage that is healthy for you.

Whereas you might have been inclined to socialize a lot under Venus in Libra, Venus in Scorpio is more about one-on-one occasions…so to speak…and not necessarily what you’re thinking- Venus in Scorpio prefers to catch up with close friends and talk about what’s really happening in their lives rather than skim the surface in a larger gathering.

Think about your relationship with whatever part of life Scorpio signifies for you. Have you been lying to yourself or to a significant other? Perhaps you’ve been hiding something away – or hiding from something. When Venus is in Scorpio all relationships require honesty. If it’s your first house that Venus is transiting through, think about your relationship with yourself. If it’s the 2nd, consider your relationship with money. Are you valuing yourself as highly as you need to be? If it’s the 7th, it’s honesty in relationships with partners that are important. In the 10th, what can you do to improve your relationship with your career, your boss, your job, your public persona? Are you pretending in any way? What can you do to make your work life more pleasurable?

Get the idea?

In my chart, Venus will begin her transit of Scorpio in the 8th house and finish it in the 9th. The 8th is about (amongst other things) debts, investments, inheritances. I’ll be using this first half of the transit to get some financials up to date. Somehow I doubt there’ll be much pleasure in it. More appropriately, I’ve recently enrolled in some online course around self-publishing and marketing and advertising on platforms such as Amazon and Facebook. I’m looking forward to getting stuck right into those. I think my 2nd house Venus in Aries would be happy.

If you have your chart already, look for Scorpio on your chart. This post will help you do that.

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If you don’t have your chart, read this post on how to get one.

If you don’t know what the houses mean, check out series 1 of the Toolbox or this post.

If you don’t have any idea about your birth time, or can’t be faffed working it out, you can follow the solar guide:

  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Scorpio, Venus will be transiting your 1st house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Sagittarius, Venus will be transiting your 12th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Capricorn, Venus will be transiting your 11th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Aquarius, Venus will be transiting your 10th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Pisces, Venus will be transiting your 9th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Aries, Venus will be transiting your 8th house.
  • If your Sun of Ascendant is in Taurus, Venus will be transiting your 7th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Gemini, Venus will be transiting your 6th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Cancer, Venus will be transiting your 5th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Leo, Venus will be transiting your 4th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Virgo, Venus will be transiting your 3rd house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Libra, Venus will be transiting your 2nd house.

Venus will be in Scorpio until 7/1/19.

The week ahead: December 2- December 9 2018

This week in a photo (or 2) a day

How on earth did we get to December? And yes, it is a rhetorical question.

Okay, this last week has been a tad tough. You might have noticed there was no post last Sunday – that’s because I had to travel to Canberra for the funeral of a close friend taken way too early…although when it comes to the passing of someone you love, it’s always too early, I suppose.

It was, however, a beautiful send-off that she would have been honoured by.

In any case, I haven’t written a weekly wrap post yet, but I have “wrapped up” November. So, if you’re interested in what I’m doing, reading, watching, writing, blogging, listening to, eating and cooking away from the day job and the stars, check out this post. Oh, and the red-flowered tree in the featured picture? It’s a poinciana and they’re looking beautiful at the moment.

As for the week ahead? It’s a busy one in the skies this week, so grab a cuppa and settle back for a bit.

As I write this on Sunday morning before the rest of my house has risen Mercury has moved back into Scorpio. He won’t be there for too long – just until 13/12 – but long enough to revisit anything that needs to be revisited. And given this is Scorpio, that doesn’t mean having a look and moving on, it means gritting your teeth, taking a deep breath and raising the covers to look underneath.

Mercury isn’t the only one re-tracing his steps – Venus is also still covering old ground as she also moves back into Scorpio on Monday. The difference is that while Venus is retracing her steps, she’s doing it while moving forward.

Because she has been retrograde this is the third time that she’s visited this part of the zodiac since September, so if you have planets or chart points between 0 and 10 Scorpio, this will be the third and final pass this cycle for you guys. Don’t ignore whatever it is (if anything) that’s brought up – even if your instinct is to turn your head away.

Venus will be out of her “shadow” by 18 December. As for what Venus in Scorpio means for everyone else? I’ll rehash an older post and pop it up later today, but if you want a sneak peek you can check it out here.

There’s a square between the Sun and Mars to kick our working week off. While there could be some irritations about, they’ll be mostly slights (or perceived slights) on your ego, so before reacting think about what your motivations to do so truly are – some skirmishes really aren’t worth the effort.

Normally this transit, brief as it is, would come with a warning not to act too rashly and ignore risks, however, Mars is in Pisces and tends to drift rather than burst out of the starting gates. Instead, consider whether your inaction is actually passive-aggressive behaviour which is, as we know, a Pisces special. And yes, with as much Pisces as I have I’m allowed to say that.

One last thing on this, all too often – especially on a Monday, I’ve found (although naturally, I have no real facts behind this) – the behaviour that seems to be directed towards us is actually being projected from us. Are you the one who’s picking for a fight? Think about that.

Thursday brings another square involving the Sun. This one, though, is with Neptune – and very different indeed.

Neptune tends to diffuse energy and if the Sun represents your vitality, then you might not be feeling terribly vital during this brief but potentially frustrating transit.

If it’s at all possible, it’s a good day to take a step back and take it a little easier – that’s exactly what your energy levels are telling you. At this time of the year though, that’s very unlikely. You are, however, receiving an advance warning so at the very least don’t put things off until Thursday that could be done earlier when you do feel more like it. In other words, if your deadline is Thursday, don’t wait until Thursday to start.

The downside of this transit is that under it it’s easy for you to convince yourself of things that are lurking in your subconscious. Imaginary problems and discouragements become real, and real problems can be pretended away into figments of your imagination. Neither of these scenarios is ideal, but the truths they tell are both real and unreal at the same time – depending on your perspective.

Sometimes the time for asking questions has gone and it’s now time to trust. Sometimes the truth becomes visible when you stop attempting to see it. That’s the Sun-Neptune conundrum.

Friday morning sees Mercury turning about to start moving in a forward direction again. That’s no reason to take your eye off the Mercury ball just yet though…give him time to get back up to normal speed before you begin implementing all those wonderful big ideas you’ve been percolating.

There’s also a New Moon on Thursday in Sagittarius. I’ve scheduled something for Tuesday morning for this, so keep an eye on the website. For reasons I have neither the time or inclination to think about, posts aren’t automatically linking to Facebook and when I’m in the middle of a work week I tend not to remember to take the extra step to do it.

We end the week with a conjunction between Mars and Neptune – making this possibly the most Piscean that Mars will be this year. This transit is exact late on Saturday night for those of us here in Australia – which could be quite fitting given that I’ll be in Sydney at a 60th birthday party for a friend at that time.

Okay, what to expect? The textbooks say that you could be feeling tetchy and irritable but unable to do anything about that. Yep, that’s a pretty good assessment. I have the occasional dream where I’m swimming laps and not going anywhere. That’s also a pretty good assessment.

In a way, it’s a little like Mars is retrograde, so take the hint and take it easy. It’s not a day for pushing yourself, starting anything new or acting on your fantasies and daydreams. If you’re tempted to do so look for the facts first.

It is, however, a great day for doing something for someone else – as long as the action is truly selfless and not a way to show the world how much of a saviour you are.

Phew! We got there.

It’s already 30C and not even 9.30am so I’m off to sit in the pool for a bit before the day really gets underway. I have to get our Christmas cake baked, our Christmas tree put up, and our Christmas presents wrapped – the latter all ready to take to Sydney next week.

Enjoy what’s left of your weekend.

 

 

 

 

Venus in Scorpio

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Venus is about to move into Scorpio- a sign she’s not particularly comfortable in. Venus in Scorpio is in what traditional astrologers term the sign of her detriment(remember back to this Toolbox?). This doesn’t mean that Venus is weak in Scorpio, it means that she is in a position where she can’t use her strength, in a place which is alien to her. She has no essential dignity in Scorpio.

Venus loves pleasure, beauty, art, food, attracting. What she doesn’t like is too much intensity, focus and sharp edges. Venus likes to attract, and in Mars ruled Scorpio, she is magnetic. Venus likes to lightly and gracefully skate across the surface, in Scorpio she goes deeper to a place that is darker than she would like.

Anyways, if you want to know more about Venus in Scorpio, I just happened to have prepared something (much) earlier. You’ll find it here.

Doing it for yourself…

We all have Scorpio somewhere in our chart, and it’s this part of life that Venus will be bestowing her presence on. It’s this part of life that you’ll find pleasure in- yes, even when Venus is in intensely focused Scorpio. Don’t be surprised over the next few weeks if you’re no longer pleased with the watered down option, or the almost there’s. Under Scorpio Venus is not satisfies with second best- nor is she in a mood to compromise.

If you have a particular obsession with something, you’ll probably want to be indulging that a tad now. I’m thinking shoes, people! I’m intending on doing the opposite- we’re looking to put our house on the market in January, so I’ll be letting go of the evidence of my obsessions over the last 18 years…

Whereas you might have been inclined to socialize a lot under Venus in Libra, Venus in Scorpio is more about one-on-one occasions…so to speak…and not necessarily what you’re thinking- Venus in Scorpio prefers to catch up with close friends and talk about what’s really happening in their lives rather than skim the surface in a larger gathering.

In my chart, Venus will begin her transit of Scorpio in the 8th house, and finish it in the 9th. The 8th is about (amongst other things) debts, investments, inheritances. I’ll be using this first half of the transit to get our taxes done and do some income planning activities for next year. But that’s just me.

If you have your chart already, look for the symbol for Venus,

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now find Scorpio on your chart.This post will help you do that.

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If you don’t have your chart, read this post on how to get one.

If you don’t know what the houses mean, check out series 1 of the Toolbox or this post.

If you don’t have any idea about your birth time, or can’t be faffed working it out, you can follow the solar guide:

  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Scorpio, Venus will be transiting your 1st house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Sagittarius, Venus will be transiting your 12th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Capricorn, Venus will be transiting your 11th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Aquarius, Venus will be transiting your 10th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Pisces, Venus will be transiting your 9th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Aries, Venus will be transiting your 8th house.
  • If your Sun of Ascendant is in Taurus, Venus will be transiting your 7th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Gemini, Venus will be transiting your 6th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Cancer, Venus will be transiting your 5th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Leo, Venus will be transiting your 4th house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Virgo, Venus will be transiting your 3rd house.
  • If your Sun or Ascendant is in Libra, Venus will be transiting your 2nd house.

Venus will be in Scorpio until 18/10/16.

Bad Romance…Venus in Scorpio

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Venus in Scorpio

“I want your ugly

I want your disease

I want your everything

as long as it’s free

I want your love…”

This line from Lady Gagas’ Bad Romance sums up Venus in Scorpio perfectly.

The Venus we saw in Libra was a milk chocolate girl- sweet and pretty with a lovely texture and melt in the mouth soft-centre. The Venus we saw in Libra was a little detached, charming and just a tad on the conservative side. She was looking for a partner, her “other half”, the one who would balance out her weaknesses and maximise her strengths. That Venus was a social butterfly, equally at home somewhere fabulous for cappuccino and cakes with her girlfriends, as dressed to the nines somewhere else fabulous having cocktails.

This Venus, Venus in Scorpio, is very different. This Venus is a bittersweet dark truffle, perhaps with a touch of chilli. This Venus is private, obsessive and sharp around the edges. This Venus doesn’t want a partner, she wants a soul-mate- she wants all of you. She wants everything. She wants your ugly, she wants your desire. She wants your passion. She doesn’t want to be friends. She’s magnetic…and she is irresistable. Sound delicious, scary or straight out weird?

Venus is in ruler-ship in Taurus, Scorpio’s opposite. This means she is in her detriment in Scorpio. Detriment- how bad does that sound? If Venus is the significator in a horary chart, it’s not at all good, but otherwise? Essentially it just means that she’s being asked to operate in a way that is different to how she likes to perform.

Venus, in the signs that she’s at her strongest, doesn’t have to do a lot other than look good, appreciate stuff, and bring people together. It’s all a little easy. In Scorpio, though, she’s edgier, darker, and way more intense.

Scorpio’s natural secrecy, paranoia and reluctance to trust makes it difficult for love to be given and received freely. Venus is in the business of attraction and pleasure, but in Scorpio she mesmerizes. In Scorpio she doesn’t just taste, she consumes.

Venus is Scorpio doesn’t know how to love just a little. She doesn’t flirt, she doesn’t play games- and she is all the more magnetic for that. She is as she is and when she wants something or someone, she wants all of it with all of her being- and doesn’t care how long it takes. Sort of like when you have a craving for, say, Pinot Gris, but all that is in the fridge is Chardonnay.

If, like me, you have Venus in Aries, you will drink the Chardonnay anyway, even though you know it will give you a headache after 2 glasses… anything for quick gratification. If you have Venus in Scorpio, you will wait until you can drink the Pinot Gris, and not settle for anything else. Why eat the dairy milk when you can hold out for the 70% cocoa Lindt?

When she does fall in love, it is with every fibre of her being, and she will assume that you will be the same. This can be tricky if you are not a watery type. Scorpio doesn’t like to talk about it- you are supposed to just “know”. It is about feeling your way- words mean nothing.

Scorpio is fixed, private and stubbornly loyal- once you have earned her trust. She will demand absolute honesty and fidelity from you, but is not above falling for another if she feels that you have betrayed her, become distant or are not as fully into her as you should be. If your Scorpio woman does stray, don’t discount power or control as being the motivating factors.

If she suspects you are not entirely honest, she will make like a forensic detective- and will continue to pursue the truth until she has either proven your guilt, or accepted your innocence.

Having said that, Venus in Scorpio attaches deeply and emotionally, and has difficulty in separating sex from love. Sex for Scorpio is an 8th house transformative, life changing experience, not 5th house fun. Don’t mess with Scorpio in love unless you are prepared to pay the price if it all falls apart. But, if you are prepared to take the risk, Scorpio is absolutely unforgettable.

In Scorpio, Venus goes as deeply as it’s possible to go to really connect with another. In Scorpio we’re talking both physical and emotional penetration. Sure it’s confrontational, but it’s also more than a little hot…did that come out loud?

Those of you with Venus in Scorpio natally, or even one of the other combos such as Pluto in the 7th, or Venus conjunct, square, opposition or inconjunct Pluto, or even Venus in the 8th, will get this. Indeed, you may actively seek this in your own relationships.

Others will feel uncomfortable- this is not a pretty girl feminine energy. It’s so much more than that. It’s primal.

It’s how you feel when you’re crushing on someone, when you feel like you could disappear into the other. It’s how you feel when you’re so deeply into it that you could inhale the other.

It’s Heathcliff and Cathy stuff- raw, wild, honest, devouring and all consuming.

Venus in Scorpio has been to the Underworld, she knows what’s down there, what’s in all of us…and she’s not afraid of the dark, nor is she ready to make nice just to keep the peace.

If you are a man with Venus in Scorpio, this is pretty well how you approach love and relationships- with single minded intensity…and your prey will not stand a chance! You will be attracted to women who are in touch with their darker, more base instincts. She will have either a strong Scorpio signature to her chart, or a strong Pluto element to her chart- eg Scorpio personal planets or Pluto closely aspecting her personal planets (especially the Moon or Venus). She may have a full 8th house or Pluto in the 7th.

Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort! 

Something about the big picture…

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So there I was thinking a little more about Venus in Scorpio…

You see, there was one thing I forgot to mention about Venus- how she goes about attracting what she wants.

And that is the biggest point of differentiation between Venus and Mars. Mars goes after what he wants, and Venus attracts it.

There’s no coincidence that Venus is uncomfortable in the Mars ruled signs of Aries and Scorpio. In Aries she is assertive, and in Scorpio, mesmerising.

Anyways, just wanted to get that out.

To the skies…

Not really a huge lot to report today.

The Moon is in Sagittarius and, aside from an early Grand Fire Trine with Uranus and Mars, La Luna is sailing quite freely towards the horizon….which is where your focus should be concentrated.

Today is not the day for focusing on details. Instead, take a step back, or two, enough to see the whole picture. Then take a deep breath and look at it again.

Sometimes just doing this gives you more faith in the future, in possibilities- it allows you to believe that there’ll be a yes when all you’ve been focusing on are the no’s.

Go on. Try it.

I’m not ready to make nice…

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Over the last few weeks I’ve been accessorising a little more. Dare I say it, a little softer, a little more girlie. I’ve even been wearing pink and coral colours on my nails. My earrings have been lighter and more discreet, and my bracelets in the singular. It hasn’t felt like me.

Last night I sat down and painted my nails a dark purple. This morning my earrings are chunky, and my bracelets are multiple again. This is more like it.

I know Venus is in rulership in Libra, but for me it doesn’t feel quite right. It’s a little too nice, and that makes me uncomfortable.

In a few hours Venus will be in Scorpio, a sign where she is in her detriment. Detriment- how bad does that sound? If Venus is the significator in a horary chart, it’s not at all good, but otherwise? Essentially it just means that she’s being asked to operate in a way that is different to how she likes to perform.

Venus, in the signs that she’s at her strongest, doesn’t have to do a lot other than look good, appreciate stuff, and bring people together. It’s all a little easy.

In Scorpio, though, she’s edgier, darker, and way more intense.

Scorpio’s natural secrecy, paranoia and reluctance to trust makes it difficult for love to be given and received freely.

In Scorpio she goes as deeply as it’s possible to go to really connect with another. In Scorpio we’re talking both physical and emotional penetration. Sure it’s confrontational, but it’s also more than a little hot…did that come out loud?

Those of us with Venus in Scorpio natally, or even one of the other combos such as Pluto in the 7th, or Venus conjunct, square, opposition or inconjunct Pluto, or even Venus in the 8th, will get this. Indeed, you may actively seek this in your own relationships.

Others will feel uncomfortable- this is not a pretty girl feminine energy. It’s so much more than that. It’s primal.

It’s how you feel when you’re crushing on someone, when you feel like you could disappear into the other. It’s how you feel when you’re so deeply into it that you could inhale the other.

It’s Heathcliff and Cathy stuff- raw, wild, honest, devouring and all consuming.

Venus in Scorpio has been to the Underworld, she knows what’s down there, what’s in all of us…and she’s not afraid of the dark, nor is she ready to make nice just to keep the peace.

Bad Romance…

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Venus in Scorpio

“I want your love and I want your revenge…I want your love, I don’t want to be friends.”

This line from Lady Gagas’ Bad Romance sum up Venus in Scorpio perfectly.

The Venus we saw in Libra was a milk chocolate girl- sweet and pretty with a lovely texture and melt in the mouth soft centre. The Venus we saw in Libra was a little detached, charming and just a tad on the conservative side. She was looking for a partner, her “other half”, the one who would balance out her weaknesses and maximise her strengths. That Venus was a social butterfly, equally at home somewhere fabulous for cappuccino and cakes with her girlfriends as dressed to the nines somewhere else fabulous having cocktails.

This Venus, Venus in Scorpio, is very different. This Venus is a bittersweet dark dark truffle, perhaps with a touch of chilli. This Venus is private, obsessive and dark around the edges. This Venus doesn’t want a partner, she wants a soul-mate- she wants all of you. She wants everything. She wants your ugly, she wants your desire. She wants your passion. She doesn’t want to be friends. And she is irresistable. Sound delicious, scary or straight out weird?

Venus is in ruler-ship in Taurus, Scorpio’s opposite. This means she is in her detriment in Scorpio. She finds all the intensity and undertones just a little too much work and way too messy. Venus is in the business of attraction and pleasure, but in Scorpio she mesmerizes. In Scorpio she doesn’t just taste, she consumes.

Venus is Scorpio doesn’t know how to love just a little. She doesn’t flirt, she doesn’t play games- and she is all the more magnetic for that. She is as she is and when she wants something or someone, she wants all of it with all of her being- and doesn’t care how long it takes. Sort of like when you have a craving for, say, Pinot Gris, but all that is in the fridge is Chardonnay.

If, like me, you have Venus in Aries, you will drink the Chardonnay anyway, even though you know it will give you a headache after 2 glasses… anything for quick gratification. If you have Venus in Scorpio, you will wait until you can drink the Pinot Gris, and not settle for anything else. Why eat the dairy milk when you can hold out for the 70% cocoa Lindt?

When she does fall in love, it is with every fibre of her being, and she will assume that you will be the same. This can be tricky if you are not a watery type. Scorpio doesn’t like to talk about it- you are supposed to just “know”. It is about feeling your way- words mean nothing.

Scorpio is fixed, private and stubbornly loyal- once you have earned her trust. She will demand absolute honesty and fidelity from you, but is not above falling for another if she feels that you have betrayed her, become distant or are not as fully into her as you should be. If your Scorpio woman does cheat, don’t discount power or control as being the motivating factors.

If she suspects you are not entirely honest, she becomes the most brilliant forensic detective- and will continue to pursue the truth until she has either proven your guilt, or accepted your innocence. With Scorpio, innocent until proven guilty does not apply. Just make sure you have removed all traces of any incriminating texts or emails…

Having said that, Venus in Scorpio attaches deeply and emotionally, and has difficulty in separating sex from love. Sex for Scorpio is an 8th house transformative, life changing experience, not 5th house fun. Don’t mess with Scorpio in love unless you are prepared to pay the price if it all falls apart. But, if you are prepared to take the risk, Scorpio is absolutely unforgettable.

Find all of this a little disturbing? Venus in Scorpio is like the forbidden apple- you know it’s not right, but by god does it feel good!

If you are a man with Venus in Scorpio, this is pretty well how you approach love and relationships- with single minded intensity…and your prey will not stand a chance! You will be attracted to women who are in touch with their darker, more base instincts. She will have either a strong Scorpio signature to her chart, or a strong Pluto element to her chart- eg Scorpio personal planets or Pluto closely aspecting her personal planets (especially the Moon or Venus). She may have a full 8th house or Pluto in the 7th.

J’ai ton amour et je veux ta revanche

J’ai ton amour, I don’t wanna be friends

…you and me could write a bad romance…

Lyrics from Bad Romance by Lady Gaga

Does this read like you or someone you know? If you are a Scorpio woman or a man or woman with Venus in Scorpio or Venus conjunct, square, inconjunct or opposite Pluto, this may read a little too true (and tempting) for comfort!

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Always on my mind…

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Today and tomorrow have a distinctly Plutonian feel.

We’re just past the Moon’s monthly opposition to Pluto- I didn’t write much about that because by now we know all the tricks- you know, the bits about rage, volcanoes, resentment and my favourite Moon-Pluto word “seething”.

This month, we get some added spice courtesy of sweet little Venus, who is just a tad less sweet and a tad more passive aggressive in Cancer- especially when in opposition to Pluto.

This is a relatively short transit- Venus opposite Pluto, that is….Pluto opposite Venus is an entirely different and longer lasting story.

Anyways, when Venus opposes Pluto, intensity is added to all things relationship. This can be exciting, it can also be dangerous- depending on how you deal with Pluto and how you handle this energy.  When Venus is opposite Pluto, you don’t want, you crave…and sometimes what you crave can lead you down the path towards forbidden fruit- if you get my meaning.

It’s the same with relationships started under this transit- they may have an element of compulsion to them…you know, that whole something is dragging you together, like a magnet. You can’t look away, you can’t stay away, there’s something that is fascinating in its power.

As for existing relationships, be aware of what is bubbling under the surface, the seismic activity that can promote volcanic eruptions is pressure isn’t released. Subconscious resentments, power plays, and less than honest manipulative actions, can result in nasty conflict- if you’re not careful.

If you’re willing to dig deep below the surface and face the true root cause of any relationship issues, some real constructive change can be achieved…so it isn’t all bad!

In the best Pluto tradition, this one will start to be felt well before it is exact- in a brooding, intense sort of way.

If you have Venus natally aspecting Pluto (especially by conjunction, square, opposition or inconjunct), Venus in Scorpio, or even Pluto in the 7th house, you’ll feel more at home with this energy than others so. If you don’t, well, the next day or so could be interesting…

If you want to know more about this aspect natally or in synastry, check out The Fine Line Between Pleasure and Pain…